Mixed in the “clicks”
Teenagers and Bi-racial relationships and
friendships
By Jessica “Jya” Yvette
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From the beginning of time,
high school has been very “click-ish”. Every school has
there groups and mine has: -the Goths -the jocks -the class presidents -the sluts -the gangsters -the pot heads -the ROTC nerds -the band geeks -the weirdos -the teachers pet -the over achievers -the under achievers -the “wannabes” -the label whores -the ditzy preps -the red necks -the ghetto kids with attitudes .:read more:. |
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Than the regular
kids that didn’t really fit into a “group” but still had their own
“click” of friends. However, amongst all the “clicks and groups”
there are so many races.
If you have never “hung out” with another race and/or someone who is
not like you than you automatically feel a discomfort until you get
to know them. With teens, we rarely take the time to get to know
others before we judge. The word judge leads us to “pre-judge” and
to pre-judge is to be prejudice. Teens are the most prejudice of all
human ages because most teens are in high school and everyone knows
how high school is. Though, high school is not to blame for most of
the world’s racial issues but it is the place where you find some of
your life long friends, (sometimes) the love of your life and you
make memories that will last forever. Although most of the time it
is completely innocent, teens of the same race will form their own
"circle or click” because they have the same language or culture.
In most cases, teens don’t make a big deal about race but tend not
to “hang out” with other races unless they were raised in an
environment where that race is dominate. I think, that it has a lot
to do with comfort and acceptance. If a teenager is in a “click”
with other teens it’s because they “click” together. There is an
understood comfort there which is a form of acceptance and
relatedness.
For all the alienated teenagers in search of an identity, the
Internet provides them with a chance to be part of something to fill
that lonely spot. Here lies the breeding ground for racism and hate.
Hundreds of racist sites are on the Internet and hundreds of teens
are being swept into the world of "cyber-hate.” Protected by the
First Amendment, the freedom of speech, various organizations are
growing, spreading their hateful messages. The Internet also
provides an underground market for hate rock, or skinhead rock,
whose fiery lyrics include allusions to "Hitler's glory" and killing
African Americans.
The commonplace of racial discrimination will inevitably bring out
prejudice. As minorities are discriminated against, they begin to
develop their own prejudices against the majorities, whoever they
might be. The hate keeps building up, ultimately leading to a cycle
of racial prejudice, making racism a part of society that is harder
and harder to get rid of.
In our modern times, the word racism should not even exist. We
should know better than to superficially discriminate against a
person because of their race. However, the matter of the fact is
that racism does exist, in adults and in teens everywhere.
Why did the Jena Six situation occur? My opinion is, racial matters
don’t bother teens as much now as it did years ago but teens still
tend to use it as a way to hurt others. In other words, it is not on
our minds unless something negative happens to us and if it is
caused by another race, at that point actions like Jena Six will
occur. I don’t normally hang out with other races, outside of mine
because I feel like I can be myself when I’m around peers of my
race. In the same breathe I have nothing against other races and I
would not mind having close friends of other races.
Other teens were asked to give their opinion on the topic (their
names will remain anonymous).
A 15-year old remarked that she disliked some whites because of the
way they are "always acting ghetto and listening to 'black'
music…but still acting stuck up, like they are all that. They don't
have respect for anyone but themselves. Minorities, in general, are
nicer." Another 17 year old said, " Asians think they're so smart,
but they're really just a bunch of suck-ups and nerds." “I don’t
hang out with other races because it’s always a weird vibe, like you
can say this or that because it might sounds racist” stated by a
high school sophomore. One 14-year-old brushed off racist concerns
saying, “I just stick with those of the same kind as me. Everybody
else just acts so damn racist."
The American Heritage Dictionary defines racism as: 1) the belief
that a particular race is superior to others; and 2) discrimination
or prejudice against a particular race.
Teens will always have varied feelings on the topic of racism. Some
will want it eliminated and others may want to expand on it.
Tolerance levels will also differ from teen to teen as to what
really constitutes racist behavior. Can a simple joke be that
offensive? Is hanging out with your own kind a racist statement? The
field of groups vary and the superiority-complex is overrated. Do
teens have racist tendencies because that's how they find security
and identity? Perhaps that American Heritage Dictionary should
somehow revise the word racism to better fit the definition of
today's times.
Jya
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